SEX & INTIMACY
If you’re looking to achieve a deep, lasting positive transformation in your sex life and relationship
If you want to overcome and heal specific sexual and intimacy concerns
If you would like to work individually or as a couple and to have live interactions with a professional clinical sexologist
If you want to have a dedicated expert at your fingertips to offer you personalized guidance and support
I help individuals and couples overcome sexual and intimacy roadblocks and positively transform their sex lives.
My approach is compassionate, non-judgmental, and sex-positive. Combined with my expertise, it empowers my clients to overcome their challenges and to begin creating sexual pleasure and intimacy with skill and confidence.
Overcome sex-related anxiety and performance pressure. Gain confidence and sexual mastery.
Heal sexual inhibitions and body shame. Reclaim sexual pleasure, desire and confidence.
Reignite desire and passion. Create amazing sexual pleasure. Enjoy a deeper intimate connection.
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What is sex and intimacy coaching?
Sex and intimacy coaching is about action and transformation. It’s a process that looks to create lasting positive change. Unlike traditional therapy, coaching doesn’t go deeply into analyzing the past or processing emotions. It’s more about getting results. At the same time, my coaching process is holistic. This means that we’ll be working on sexual mindset, education, and skills; body, health, boundaries, pleasure, and sensuality; emotional needs related to sex and intimacy; and more, depending on your needs and goals.
Who is Dr. Valeria's typical client?
I work with both individuals and couples. I have equally good rapport with men and women and I’m able to personalize my approach to every individual client. My work with women is often focused on overcoming sexual shame and guilt; improving body image; growing desire and improving orgasms; and achieving sexual confidence. My work with men often centers around overcoming performance anxiety; becoming a better lover; enjoying more frequent and pleasurable sex; and achieving sexual mastery and confidence. With couples, I work on creating more pleasure, passion and desire, and improving communication.
I am a sex positive, open-minded sex and intimacy expert and coach. While the majority of my clients are cisgender and heterosexual, I welcome everyone regardless of their gender or sexual orientation. I’m also open to clients with interest in kink and consensual non-monogamy.
How long will it take to see results?
Since sex and relationship coaching is focused on goals and action, it isn’t as lengthy as traditional therapy. In-person coaching will usually offer the biggest growth and results since I will be there in person to serve as your guide. However, in the coaching process, you are ultimately in charge of the outcome. Much of your progress will depend on how ready and committed you are to creating lasting positive change in your sex life.
What if I feel uncomfortable?
Sex and intimacy are emotionally charged subjects, and it’s likely that you’ll feel vulnerable at first. However, my job as a clinical sexologist and coach is to create a safe, sex-positive, and compassionate environment for our work together. I’ll be happy to help you process and overcome any discomfort you may feel during coaching.
If you are particularly anxious or shy about discussing sex and intimacy in person, then my email coaching service may be a great option for you.
Will I be shamed or judged in any way?
Never. This is my ironclad promise. I am an entirely sex-positive and body-positive coach, completely accepting of everyone, no matter where they are on the sexual spectrum. I have been extensively trained to offer my clients compassion, acceptance, and permission to be themselves. Doing or saying anything that isn’t aligned with this principle goes against not just my ethics and training, but also against my own personal beliefs.
INTERESTED IN WORKING WITH ME?
One of my primary reasons for working with Dr. Valeria was to connect to my sensuality and improve my body image. Dr. Valeria showed me that every woman can be sensual and powerful in her own way. She helped me connect to who I truly am as a woman. Now, I feel a lot more confident but most importantly, I still feel like ME. Dr. Valeria's style is very warm, engaging and non-judgmental. She's great at putting you at ease, especially considering how sensitive some of the subject matter is. She is clearly passionate about what she does, and it translates into her work. I really enjoyed working with her and I highly recommend her!
Let me start off by stating that Dr. Valeria is awesome. If you want to discuss and explore aspects of your sexuality, sex, or intimacy in a safe, non-judgmental space then you have found the right person. During my consultation with the “Pleasure Boss” we discussed my erotic type, sexual inhibitions, sexual anatomy, and most importantly how to take ownership of my sexuality and become sexually empowered! I am now willing to discuss my sexual needs with my partner without feeling guilt or shame. It will take time for me to grow into my new and true sexual persona and I am happy that I have Dr. Valeria to guide me through this amazing journey.
During our session together, I was amazed by how wise and on point Dr. Valeria's advice was. It was like she was voicing my own thoughts in a crisp and clear way that helped me see myself from a new viewpoint. More importantly, she pointed out tools I already had that I could use to resolve my issues. My level of energy rose tremendously from when we started talking to when we were ready to say good-bye. And I started implementing some of the strategies we had discussed that very evening and it was very enjoyable and liberating. Thank you, Dr. Valeria!
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